Choose Your Own Adventure

As a developing practitioner, I often reflect on the journey that led me to where I am today. If I could go back in time and talk to my younger self, there are a few things I would share that have become core values in my work and life: connection, healing, and growth. These values have helped me navigate challenges, stay focused on my goals, and cultivate a mindset of abundance and possibility.

In this blog post, I want to share with you some of the lessons I've learned along the way, and what I would tell my younger self about creating a life and career filled with purpose and fulfillment. Whether you're just starting out on your journey, or you're looking for inspiration to keep going, I hope these insights will resonate with you and help you stay focused on what truly matters. So, let's dive in!

There is always a way

Even when it seems like there isn't, there is always a way. It's important to remember that setbacks and obstacles are a natural part of life, but they don't have to define your journey. When I look back on my own experiences, I can see how every challenge I faced helped me grow and learn in some way. And when I felt like giving up, I reminded myself that there was always another way forward, even if it wasn't immediately obvious.

It's easy to get caught up in the belief that certain things are impossible or that we're just not meant to achieve certain goals. But the truth is, the universe is full of infinite possibilities and opportunities. Sometimes we just need to shift our perspective or try a different approach to find the way forward.

So if you're feeling stuck or discouraged, remember that there is always a way. Keep an open mind, be willing to try new things, and trust that the universe has a plan for you.

Keep it simple

We live in a world where we're constantly bombarded with information, opportunities, and distractions. It's easy to fall into the trap of trying to do everything at once, or chasing every shiny new idea that comes our way. But as I've learned over the years, simplicity is key.

When it comes to achieving your goals and creating the life you want, it's important to focus on the things that truly matter. This means being selective about the projects you take on, and prioritizing the tasks that will have the biggest impact.

I used to be someone who would try to juggle too many things at once, and as a result, I often felt overwhelmed and burnt out. But by learning to keep things simple and focus on the essentials, I've been able to achieve more than I ever thought possible.

My advice to my younger self, and to anyone else who might be struggling with shiny object syndrome or feeling overwhelmed, is to take a step back and focus on the things that truly matter. Work on your ideas, but keep the doing simple. You'll thank yourself in the long run.

How you think determines your results

As the famous saying goes, "where your attention goes, energy flows." It's essential to give your attention to things that are worthwhile and align with your goals. But even more important than what you think is how you think.

Our thoughts shape our reality, and negative self-talk or limiting beliefs can hold us back from reaching our full potential. It's crucial to cultivate a positive mindset and focus on solutions instead of problems. When we shift our thoughts, we shift our energy, and that's when the magic happens.

So the next time you catch yourself thinking negatively or feeling stuck, remember that you have the power to change your thoughts and, ultimately, your results. Your thoughts shape your reality, so choose them wisely.

Have a clear intention of what you wish to create

One of the most important things I would tell my younger self is to have a clear intention of what you wish to create. When you have a clear idea of what you want, you can make smarter decisions and focus your energy on the things that truly matter. It's easy to get caught up in the noise and distractions of life, but when you have a clear vision of what you want to achieve, you can cut through the clutter and focus on what's truly important. By knowing your own vision, you can align your decisions with your goals and avoid getting pulled in different directions by outside influences. With a clear intention, you know what's a good choice for you, and more importantly, what's not.

Cultivate your mindset daily

Cultivating a positive and growth-oriented mindset is crucial for achieving your goals and living your best life. It starts with doing the inner work on your subconscious beliefs and thought patterns. Take a deep dive into understanding the limitations and self-imposed boundaries that may be holding you back.

Once you gain a deeper understanding of your own mindset, you have a greater ability to change things that don't work for you and cultivate the things that do. This means consciously choosing thoughts and beliefs that align with your goals and values, and practicing positive self-talk and visualization techniques. By making mindset cultivation a daily practice, you can transform your life and create the future you desire.

Building Your Support System

As you strive towards your goals, it's important to remember that you don't have to do it alone. Building a support system of people, resources, and environments that align with your vision and values can make all the difference in your success.

Make the choice from who you want to become, rather than who you are now. This is the concept of acting "as if," and it's the key to great manifestation. Surround yourself with people who inspire and uplift you, seek out resources that educate and empower you, and create environments that support and nourish you.

When you're in alignment with your support system, you'll find that opportunities and ideas flow to you effortlessly. You'll feel energized and motivated, and obstacles will become challenges to overcome rather than roadblocks to your success.

Remember, you have the power to choose who and what you surround yourself with. Choose wisely, and watch your dreams become reality.

You have the power within

These are the key values that have guided me on my journey and have enabled me to create a life and career that aligns with my purpose. By understanding that there is always a way, keeping things simple, recognising the power of our thoughts, having a clear intention, cultivating our mindset, and building a supportive community, we can achieve our goals and live a fulfilling life. Remember that the journey may not always be easy, but by focusing on these values and taking small steps every day, we can create the life we desire. So let's commit to making choices that align with our vision and surround ourselves with the right people, resources, and environments to help us achieve our dreams.

Remember you’ve got this. I so look forward to all the incredible results you create!